Your personality is one thing that will remain even after your death. It’s your nature that people will remember not your looks, it’s your personality that how great you are. Have you notice that whenever you went to an event you meet a person who has the quality that everybody like about i.e. his personality, way of communication and attitude towards others.
Everyone wants that kind of personality that people like about them. So here are few techniques that could help people to develop a strong personality.
1. First listen and then speak.
Being a listener could be a great quality of a person and that doesn’t make you shy and introvert, even it represents that you are a good listener and know when and how to speak. Before knowing things properly, you can’t give your opinions, maybe it was not the correct one that would suppose to give at that time.
2. Let your actions speak for you.
It happens with lots of people that they feel depressed when someone comment on them or their career, but what is best at that time is to keep quiet and prove them wrong in future. Your success is the best slap on everyone’s face without even saying a word.
“Work hard in silence. Let success make the noise.”
3. Accept praise but always give credit.
Whenever you get compliments and praises always thank them for the compliment and give credit to those who helped you like your parents. There is no one in the world that can be like your parents. For my every success i give full credit to my parents, their dedication, support and love, without them I am nothing.
4. Stop seeking approval from others.
Always seek for the success not the approval and praises. If someone doesn’t approve your choice and you know it’s the right choice then go for it. When you will succeed everyone will know what you are capable of and that make you strong. But be careful if you are going against other’s choices then you have to prove them wrong by your success.
5. Build up the people around you.
You can make friends only by your nature and personality. No one likes rude and undisciplined person. Make people friends without an agenda, do this because you care and respect others.